
I had the nicest day with my mom today. It made me want to blog about her and about how much we love each other.
She came to the barn earlier than usual today. I was having my morning nap when I heard her voice calling my name as she walked toward my stall. I whinnied loudly in greeting like I always do, only today I did it from my cozy napping position. When she got to the stall, she laughed and told me how cute I looked, and she opened the door to come in and see me. She told me not to get up but I was happy and excited to see her so I did. She gave me a big hug and petted me all over and told me what a Good Girl I am. It was a nice way to wake up from my nap.
When I first came to live with my mom, I was always happy to see her but it wasn't really because it was her - it was just because it was someone coming to see me and maybe feed me. When you spend all day in your stall, it's good to have some company and the chance to get out and do something. I would have been happy to see anyone. But gradually, I realized that every day the same person was coming and that she seemed to think I was really special. It made me feel nice and I started feeling like she might be special too. That's when I started nickering when I saw her, and after a while, I learned what her car sounded like and I began nickering as soon as I heard it. Finally, I don't remember when, I started whinnying instead, because I wasn't just happy someone was coming to see me, I was happy that my mom was coming.
She got me out of my stall and got to work cleaning it but she spent a lot of time first petting my face. I have a bad habit of tossing my head around a lot, especially when people are trying to pet it. It's because I'm always hoping they have something to eat in their hands so when they reach for me, I poke my nose at their hand instead of holding still to be petted. Mom has been working with me on that. She holds my halter loosely to remind me to keep my head down and then she quietly reaches up to pet me. She pets my cheeks first - it's easier for me to remember not to be nosy when she's touching my cheeks - and then gradually starts petting my face. She reminds me to keep still by saying "face" which is what she says when she puts on my halter or bridle. It's a good reminder and I'm getting better about it. Today after a couple of bad starts, I relaxed and ended up enjoying the petting. She even poked her finger in my ear and rubbed it really well just the way I like it. Ears get itchy sometimes and you can't always reach the right parts when you rub them on something. Sparky doesn't much like his ears touched but I love it.
Even when she started cleaning, she kept paying attention to me. She does that a lot. I like to be involved in things and she knows that so she often parks the rolling bucket thing near my door so I can check it out, and she stands close enough to me so that I can whuffle her and gently mouth her clothes. When I first came here, I used my teeth a lot to do those things but she taught me that's not Manners and so now I just use my lips. She doesn't mind that. I lip her hair and her clothes, and I lip at the rake and shovel and pretend I'm helping to clean. It's fun. Every now and then I get a little carried away and just touch her with my teeth but she tells me "No" sternly and then I remember. I haven't actually bitten my mom in a long time.
She finished my stall and then she groomed me. She did a really good job. My mom always brushes me thoroughly but sometimes she really takes her time and does an extra good job and that's what she did today. It felt good. I used to be really fussy about being groomed. I didn't like the way the brushes felt and I flinched a lot and swished my tail and moved around trying to avoid it. It wasn't that I was trying to be bad - I was just afraid it was going to hurt. I have sensitive skin, you know, and any kind of roughness is very uncomfortable. My mom wasn't rough at all, of course, but I didn't know she wouldn't be.
She understood though and was always careful and gentle brushing me. At the same time, she was firm about the fact that I had to behave and let her brush me. I wasn't allowed to bite or kick or move around too much but it was okay if I swished my tail or put my ears back. Gradually I learned that I could trust her. She only uses my curry comb if I have a really dirty spot, for instance, and she only uses a soft rubber curry that doesn't hurt. For a long time, she didn't use a stiff brush at all on me except to get mud off my legs because I was so uncomfortable about it. She just used a nice soft-bristled brush and spent extra time getting me clean instead. Now I don't mind if she uses a stiff brush because I know she's careful and she knows all the spots that are extra sensitive. When she brushes me now, I like it. I stand still (well, mostly still. I don't really like to stand still for too long) and sometimes I get drowsy because it feels nice.
Today she put Fly Spray on me. I was glad. There was one fly buzzing around me and landing on my legs and belly and it was driving me nuts! I hate flies. Just one fly will make me so upset and irritated! They tickle me and make me itch and I get so mad and have to stamp and bite at them and swish my tail a lot. My mom understands that too. Some horses can put up with the flies but I just can't. So my mom always makes sure that I have Fly Spray on, and she keeps my stall clean so they don't get too bad in there. She also hung up a special box that sprays out Fly Spray in my stall every so often. That really helps. I'm so glad she takes care of those things because they make all the difference.
Finally I was all beautifully groomed and shining. My hooves were picked out and my mane and tail and forelock combed. She had brushed my face with my favorite little red soft brush and she'd put Fly Spray on my face with a soft towel just the way I like it. She finished by brushing me all over with a special brush that's really, really soft and polishes my coat until it gleams in the sun. I felt beautiful and she said I looked beautiful too. Then she put my wraps on and we walked to the Round Pen.
I've blogged about how I used to misbehave when my mom was walking me. Well, now I walk really nicely almost all the time. That's because my mom has been patient with me and taught me how to behave right. And it's actually a lot more fun. We walk along together with my lead nice and loose between us, and we look at things and my mom talks to me and it's nice. I don't know why I was so rotten before. Today after we worked in the Round Pen, we walked around the farm and had a nice time. We saw a Deer eating grass, and one of the big horses that the kids jump on and off of, and we saw lots of people out riding or walking their horses and we were one of them. It was kind of relaxing to be one of the horses just meandering along with its mom instead of jumping around and twirling and being silly. I guess now that I'm six, I like to behave better.
But that happened after our workout and that was a fun time too. My mom brought me into the Round Pen then went to get my Cones and stuff but instead of making me get right to work, we just hung out together for a while. For one thing, I was nosing around looking for a place to roll and my mom wanted to give me a chance to do that before we got going. That's one of the things I love about my mom. Here she'd spent a good hour grooming me extra special nice but she was just fine with watching me roll in the dirt and spoil her whole effort. She's always like that too. She knows how important it is to horses to have a good roll and she'd never stop me from doing it.
I never did find a good spot but I kept walking over to her just to check in every couple of minutes and she'd pet me and talk to me and play with my lips. I love that game too. It's fun. I lipped back at her hand, and her pant legs, and then I reached down and started playing with her shoes. That's one of our special games - I grab at her shoes and she moves them away and I try to catch them. It's really fun, and today we did that for a little bit and then she said, "Now I'm going to get your feet!" and she moved toward me and gently stepped on my hoof! I backed up and she came after me and did it again and I backed up all the way across the Round Pen. Then she petted me and told me I was a Good Girl because I was moving away from pressure - that's what she calls it when she pushes herself into my space. She gave me a cookie too.
We had a really nice time in that Round Pen. Eventually we did do some free lunging, and some Cone work, and then we played some more games. She walked along around the Round Pen dragging her whip behind her and I followed, trying to grab the end of it in my mouth. That was really fun. And we played with the Cones - she picked one up and held it for me and then I grabbed it with my mouth and flopped it around. We played the game where she walks and I walk with her and when she stops, I stop. That's a fun one.
I never used to play games like that with my mom much. I sometimes played the Shoe Game but I was a lot rougher about it and I'd sometimes get pushy. Mostly I didn't pay a lot of attention to her when I was turned out, or even when she was lunging me. I was too busy looking around at other stuff and trying to find something to eat. I didn't want anyone telling me what to do and I didn't realize how much fun it could be to play games with your mom. It really wasn't until we started playing games with the Bag Stick that I figured it out. At first I was afraid of it but it made me pay close attention and once I did that, I learned lots of fun stuff. Now I'm always paying attention to my mom because I never know what we might be doing next but I always know it will be nice.
It was a really good day. Thinking about it makes me realize what a lucky horse I am. I have a mom who loves and understands me and we have more fun together than any other horse and person I know. If tomorrow is half as nice as today was, it will be a really good day.